Andrea Mara

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15 from 15

It’s that irresistible round-up time of year, and I’m jumping on the bandwagon – taking the lead from Sadhbh of Where Wishes Come From, and joining her linky to round-up my favourite 15 blog-related things from 2015. Well, mostly blog-related – there’s a bit of slippage into real-life too.

1. My favourite post

The one that meant most to me was The Goodbye – I hesitated publishing it but was glad I did.

2. My most popular post

The most read post this year was First Child, on expecting too much from my eldest daughter. I hope it’s something I can show to her when she’s older (right now she’d hold it over me every time I ask her to do anything!)

3. The post nobody read

Gender quotas. See, you’ve switched off already. That’s OK. Anyway, in case you need something exciting to read this new year, here are what I think are reasonably objective pros and cons of gender quotas: Gender Quotas: Problem or Solution?

4. My favourite blog photo

This was taken during a day trip to Kia Ora Farm farm at the end of the summer – it rained non-stop and we thought about turning around and going home but the kids took the lead. They tried everything, ran around for three hours, and smiled non-stop, completely oblivious to the rain. I could learn something from these guys. Especially as it hasn’t stopped raining since October.

Kia Ora farm

5. My favourite blog moments

Winning Best Parent Blog at the Blog Awards Ireland in October was a huge highlight for me, as was getting Best Parent Blog at the Glenisk Parent Blog Awards in April – the latter was voted on by peers, and there’s something very lovely and special about that. I suspect I’ll never have a year like this again, so it’s nice to be able to mark it here.

6. My best move 

Leaving my office job of seventeen years (a bit on purpose, a lot not on purpose) to switch to working as a freelance writer was my biggest move this year, and so far, it’s been good. There have been ups and downs in quick succession, and one goal for 2016 is to accept that that’s how freelancing goes. For my husband’s sanity, I will try not to dissolve into a gibbering panicky mess during every minor blip.

7. Favourite guest post 

My favourite US parenting site is Scary Mommy, and I was delighted to guest post there three times this year, including this piece about a boy in the playground who is causing all kinds of trouble: That Boy

8. Most popular photo on the Office Mum Facebook page

My husband regularly goes to great lengths to freak out the kids, and telling them (via a letter supposedly from the school) that he had been hired as the new hip hop teacher worked very nicely.

Hip Hop letter

9. Favourite article for Her Family

I’ve been writing for Her Family for a full year now, sometimes on serious topics like the smacking ban, and sometimes on the lighter side of parenthood. The article that got the biggest reaction was this one – about the Facebook version of my holiday versus the real version. I guess lots of us are guilty of sharing only our favourite photos :)

Facebook photos

10. My biggest milestones

Turning 41 and being 11 years married weren’t quite as exciting as last year’s milestones. Instead of dinners and cocktails I hosted a birthday party for my six-year-old, and instead of an anniversary trip to Lisbon, we sat on the couch.


But I think I secretly enjoyed having a lower key year with less pressure to do amazing celebratory things.

11. My favourite freebies

The three things I loved the most were my Oh My Welly rainbow boots for the small boy, my two Povey bags, and my Orla Kiely bin. All currently getting lots of use, especially the wellies…

12. My biggest fail

After writing a first draft book in 2014, I did almost nothing with it during 2015. As I explained to Nicola in this interview, it’s on the shelf but unfortunately the metaphorical one, not the physical one. When the smallest goes to school next September, I hope to get my nights back for fiction writing. Or when they’re all in college. Maybe don’t watch this space (unless you’re an agent or publisher who wants to see a manuscript about odd comings-and-goings in the house next door – in which case I’m your woman.)

13. My favourite newspaper feature

I’ve loved working on every article I’ve written this year but only AFTER each one has been published – usually when I’m in the middle of it, there are moments of sheer panic. But one that I really enjoyed throughout was a feature on Free Range Parenting for the Examiner, with huge thanks to fab contributors – free range parent Joanne Byrne, author Stella O’Malley and founder of the Free Range Parenting movement Lenore Skenazy.

If I can have another one, a real high for me was having a feature published in Image magazine – on taking the leap from PAYE work to self-employment, appropriately enough.

Image feature - Andrea Mara

14. My favourite things I bought and never blogged about

Like last year, this a tenuous link to a post that’s supposed to be blog-related, but if I was a fashion, lifestyle or book review blogger, these things would have made my round-up:



  • Dress: I’m obsessed with finding long-sleeved dresses and I love this one from Zara
  • Bag: Yellow is my second favourite colour and my lap top fits in this shopper from Warehouse
  • Book: The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt was the book I enjoyed most this year
  • Shoes: My recently purchased Office shoeboots are just the right heel height for people who are 5’2″ and need all the help they can get
  • Perfume:  Jo Malone Pomegranate Noir makes me very happy

15. What I got out of blogging this year

A place to let off steam, somewhere to write about anything I want without set wordcounts or deadlines. Connections. Therapy. Friendships. Great company late at night at the end of a long day. More highs than lows. And a distraction from eating cheese.

Thanks for indulging me through this post and throughout 2015 – knowing that people are reading is what keeps bloggers going. Wishing you and yours the very best of everything for 2016!


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